Category: Holiday

Thanksgiving tableware, pumpkin plate

Thanksgiving is precisely two weeks away from today so there is still time to choose one of these two Thanksgiving tableware choices.  One of the things I look forward to with any holiday celebrating is setting the table.  Even if it’s a simple Thanksgiving table setting, I try to make it as pretty as possible.  Of course, it’s a lot easier and things turn out a lot better when we plan in advance so I did the work for you and put together two tabletop decor for you to choose from.  Either Transitional or Traditional, I got you covered.  Scroll down for more.

Traditional Tableware Decor

If there is a time of year to go all out with motif decor that would be Thanksgiving.  Hence the gorgeous selection of turkey and pumpkin inspired tabletop accessories below.
Thanksgiving tableware, tablecloth

Plymouth turkey tablecloth

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Thanksgiving decorating ideas via belle vivir

If you are invited to spend Thanksgiving at someone else’s house then you’re giving thanks for the fact that you don’t have to cook.  We’re going to spend it with my in-laws’ for Thanksgiving dinner this year.  That means you can sit back and relax and enjoy the parade.  Oh, but let’s not forget these essential house guests etiquette which will help you navigate the night graciously.

house guests etiquette, thanksgiving dinerThe problem with going to another person’s house for the holidays is that you need to act accordingly.  If you do the wrong things at the wrong times, you’ll earn yourself a reputation.  The good news is this post is going to save your turkey by teaching you the four things you should always do.

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Thanksgiving wreath, autumn wreath

I can’t believe it’s almost Thanksgiving again.  It feels like it was yesterday.  I know that today is actuallly Halloween, but it’s a great idea to start planning your Thanksgiving decor, and I say let’s start with the main door.  Your main entrance should set the tone for what follows after. Hence it should look the part.  A beautiful Autumn wreath is a great accessory to embellish your door, and now it’s the ideal occasion to add to your all-seasons wreath collection.  Let your guests be greeted by one of these beautiful Autumn-inspired decorating accessories and let the holiday season begin.

 

Thanksgiving wreath, autumn wreath

Blooming Autumn Greenery, Pumpkin and Berry Wreath-White available here.

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You will want to make your home inviting and cozy when autumn and winter arrive, especially for the holiday season. Families must spend more time inside as the temperatures begin to drop, so having a warm home is essential. Here are a few tips for your home’s seasonal decor throughout the autumn and winter.

make your home inviting, warm living room

Photo via Elle Decor

How to Make Your Home Inviting During Cold Season

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Often we complain about our political/social situation, failing to realize how powerful individual efforts are.  It’s easy to just be diplomatic and play it safe in order to not sabotage our own personal progress.  Such approach is not self rewarding to me and it’s certainly not going to help heal a country that needs so much healing after this last election…?  In a day as important as today, we all should feel compelled to reflect on how we can make a difference by helping those who are marginalized and treated less worthy?  Below, a list of present valuable causes to support.

valuable causes to support, Martin Luther King Jr. via belle vivir blog

We should educate ourselves and understand the legacy of Martin Luther King Jr. — that a man should be judged by the content of his character not by the color of his skin.  Most importantly, support those organizations that are actually making a difference and fighting against injustice and inequality.  Here is a list of organizations that help with that fight alone with a very recent information that I have found deeply upsetting.

valuable causes to support, Serena Williams and daughter Vogue

Black Infant Health Program and Souls of A Sister Reproductive Justice Institute

I was shocked to read an article in this month’s Parents Magazine that U.S. has the highest maternal-mortality rate among all industrialized countries in the world.  In California alone black infant mortality is 9.4 deaths per 1,000 births – a colossal difference from the white rate of 3.9.  Experts and professionals conclude that even when having the same level of medical care and even among highly educated affluent black mothers, African American women have the worst childbirth outcomes of any group in this country.  The reason for the disparity is even more alarming and perplexing and the conclusion is linked to our country’s complicated history with racism.  “It is absolutely plausible, scientifically, that the chronic stress of being treated unfairly or viewed unjustly because of one’s race- or even just worrying that this may occur- could cause physiological changes in a woman’s body that can in turn put her infant at a disadvantage”  Dr. Braveman told Parents Magazine.  Ongoing stress can lead to inflammation throughout the body which can weaken our immune system and as a consequence affect offspring.  Dr. Braveman went on to explain that this effect is called “allocastic load” which causes a breakdown of the body’s health preserving mechanisms.  A study in Journal of the National Medical Association found that black men and women have higher allocastic load scores than whites, which has led to an increase in premature death from chronic diseases.  It doesn’t matter who you are or how much money you have, recently Serena Williams who together with her beautiful baby daughter grace the cover of the current issue of Vogue recounts the scary days that followed her childbirth experience.  You can read the scary episode here.  Helping an organization that empowers disadvantaged mothers, regardless of their race is always a worthy cause.

valuable causes to support, Barack Obama via belle vivir blog

American Civil Liberty Unions

Voter suppression is another embarrassing fact of this country.  State legislatures try to curb voting rights by creating more laws that make it more difficult to register to vote and curtail access to the ballot box.  But it’s of course been emboldened lately with baseless claims of voting fraud.  In reality what the status quo is trying to do is to prepare the path to enact new and harder laws to stop a certain social demographic from voting.  In a way to maintain the status quo.  Everyone should have the right to vote.  If you watched the Obama interview with David Letterman this past week, he explains this issue in his own quintessentially smart way.  Supporting organization that fight for basic civil rights is paramount.

Human Rights First

Human rights should in the forefront for any law creation or legislative action.

This last cause may not have to do with Civil Rights but it’s in keeping with helping one of the most important causes of modern history.  Global Warming is a fact.

valuable causes to support global warming via belle vivir blog

Avoided Deforestation Partners and Greenpeace

This issue should be simply understood since it’s backed by so many scientific studies yet, many prefer to ignore the facts or come up with alternative facts which are mainly lies or fake news.  If we destroy our planet where will we go, what will we leave to our children or future generations?

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Not to sound like Oprah here but it truly is the ordinary things that make up for a big chunk of our happiness.  Simple and daily rituals are the ones that make a difference in our lives.  As I look forward to my morning espresso everyday… well I also look forward to my early afternoon one… I feel a sense of happiness and excitement.  It may or may not have to do with the fact that where I come from, an Island called DR, coffee is used as a social activity instead of a source of energy.  It’s not realistic to wish to enjoy every minute of our days because frankly who can be immune to the wrong things that affect us emotionally sometimes, but I think that learning to be grateful for the simple things it’s more than doable.  It can start with comparing our life today to our life five years ago.  Just recently I had a conversation with a very particular friend who was stacked repeating like a broken record that life doesn’t get better, until I asked him where were you five years ago?  What was your economical situation five years ago?  How was your family five years ago?… and so on.  His response was, well now that you say that, we are much better today, that’s true…. I’m sure that is the situation of many other people.  Life does get better every year in many ways and it helps to keep that in mind as often as we can.  Here is to the better next year, wishing you and your family many ordinary daily moments to look forward to.  From our Home to yours, Happy New Year!

Munich 2016

Munich and peekaboo on the lower right.

Munich 2016

Viktualienmarkt Munich

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